Thursday, February 24, 2011

Oh baby!

Time is just flying by.  I know that I have been a slacker in updating this blog... but there have been A LOT of good reasons.  Where to start?

Christmas - my parents came out to visit, and we had a great time with them.  Alta was Grandpa's little girl for sure.  She even picked him over Dad, and that's really saying something!  Of course, he was the holder of the iPhone, so perhaps that may have had more to do with it!  What a tech genius she is!  She figured out how to turn on the phone, unlock it, and then scroll through pictures, music, etc.  She is just so smart.  She was also very good at working us in order to get that phone.  Oh dear... the signs of things to come!

On Christmas day, we discovered that our house had flooded.  Water came up from our bottom floor toilet - because there was a blockage somewhere in between the house and the main sewer line.  A plumber came out - and pushed the blockage through to the sewer, and we thought everything was going to be fine - because our house is under warranty!  So we just took it in stride, and enjoyed our Christmas morning as best as we could. 

Well, it turned into a bit more of an ordeal that we had previously anticipated.  Turns out, it wasn't under our warranty, and we had to cover it with our home owners insurance.  We later discovered that any water that comes out of your toilet, is considered "black water", and a biohazard.  Oh joy!  Unfortunately it contaminated all of the lower level of our house, which means - everything had to be replaced.  We had to move out of the house to protect ourselves from getting sick.  Lucky for us, we were able to stay with the England family until hotel costs were approved by our insurance (remember, this is during the Christmas holidays - so no one was in the office to even give us an answer as to what to do!)  We eventually made it to a hotel, and then finally back into our house after it was officially "decontaminated".  We all got sick during the process.  When we were able to return home, we found that it is much more difficult to live out of your bedrooms when you have a 14 month old to entertain.  Again the England's came to our rescue - and kept us busy many of the days by letting us come play with their kids.  By us, I mean - Alta and me... Jaren of course had work.  :)  We were shown so much kindness by the members of our Church.  We had meals brought to us, and various other kindnesses shown during the month we spent camping in our house. 

During this experience, I learned a fabulous lesson about the God and the Savior's love for me (well actually, for each of His children).  I am a do-er... a give-er.  I do not like to be the one that's receiving another's service.  Yes, I am prideful.  But during this experience I had to accept help - because I genuinely needed it.  And somewhere throughout this process, I was led to the thought, "Brenna, you love to serve others.  It makes you feel good.  You feel closer to God in the process, and know that you are able to do His work by helping others.  So why do you stop others or hesitate to let others help you?  Would you stop the Savior if he came to your rescue?  Would you say - Uh, no, you don't need to bring me dinner?" 
Needless to say, I hope I have overcome a bit of my pride through this process, and was able to feel more completely the love of the Lord.  I also have made some friends in the process. Huge blessing. 

Moving on - I'm pregnant.  So this means, I'm getting huge.  Really I started off the Christmas season not-too-huge... and have moved on into Ginorma-ville.  Meanwhile - Alta is also HUGE.  She is over 30 lbs.  She is not fat, but she is sturdy.  And solid.  And heavy.  And adorable! 


And teething.... Oh my!  Lots of teeth coming through these days.  We have two more coming in on the top.  Which leads to a lot of this.......

 Still... she is pretty stinking cute eh?

Oh, and she's walking now.  FINALLY!  Woohooo... poor thing.  She is a perfectionist (wonder where she got that from?) and wouldn't walk on her own until she was positive that she wouldn't make any mistakes doing it.  So, for the past few months I have had to walk her around everywhere.  Well, she finally let go a few weeks ago, and now is overjoyed with her new found freedom.  She is not overjoyed when you have to say "No" about what she is not supposed to be into.  Just today, she was throwing away her toys, and bringing Mommy garbage from the kitchen.  She is just so thoughtful! 

Jaren has finally started flying.  This makes us all very happy.  #1 - because don't you think a pilot should fly every now and then?  Me too.  # 2 - It makes for a much happier Jaren.  # 3 - I would like for him to actually be a bit more experienced in his bird before he leaves for Afghanistan this summer. 

Also important to report - Jaren was promoted.  We can now call him "Chief".  He is a Warrant 2 now.  We had a promotion ceremony for him at his work.  It is truly very informal, and more a hazing ritual than anything else.  But it was a lot of fun to watch him with his co-pilots.  After all - these are the men and women that will be with him when he is gone... and I take a lot of comfort in the fact that they care enough about him to dump chocolate milk, liquid shower soap, and coffee grinds on him.  Oh wait... they left the coffee grinds for me. 



We did a great job didn't we? 



Anyhow, like I said at the beginning of this post.  Time is flying by.  I'm 31 weeks pregnant now, and will be adding another little girl into the mix before long.  I am just so grateful to be enjoying this life with my best friend, and the most wonderful child in all of existance.  And no, that's not just the pregnancy hormones talking.  I really do have it good. 

5 comments:

Gwen said...

Alta is ADORABLE!!!!! What a mess with all the flooding and geez I totally understand about not accepting help. What a humbling expereince. I sure love you my dear. Every time I talk to you (or read your blog) you uplift me and make me want to be a better person. I love you so much and I NEED to see a picture with you and your cute preggo belly!! I want an update about how the pregnancy is going. How far along are you now? You've got to get one of those preggo counters or something. It's late and I should have been to bed forever ago. I just was so excited to see an update. Tell Jaren congrats! We are so happy for you for all that is going for you guys. I am so proud of you for being such a great warrior wife and for choosing to make the sacrifices necessary to stay-at-home and raise your babies. Love you and miss you dearly!!!!! We have got to talk soon!

Challis said...

Brenna!!! I love the update! I am so proud of Alta with her walking and teething!! Talk about a lot of milestones all at once! She is even more stinkin' cute than when you guys left! I'm glad your housing situation has resolved and that you were able to be lifted up by the members of the church there through that trial. I'm excited for Jaren too! Tell him congrats from us! We sure do miss you and hope all is well!

Krystle :) said...

I LOVE THIS POST! I love that you are doing so well, that Alta is so big (AND BEAUTIFUL) and that you were able to receive the blessings that others gave and were to you. I am just like you - so thank you for your honest thoughts in this post. You are a great giver, and it's always extra special to bless a giver. I am so happy you have such a great family of friends around you. Congrats to the Chief! I can't believe you are already 31 weeks preggo!!! I need a belly picture Missy! We love you guys and miss you! Love that we have blogs to keep up to date. Keep them coming. xoxoxoxox

Kaybi said...

Holy smokes! Kimber and Alta could be twins. I'm glad you got back into your house. :) I miss you guys so much!! XOXO

heatherrimmer said...

Oh wow, my little Alta is not a baby anymore! I cannot wait to get out there and see you guys. It's been too long!